4 ways that pruning a plant can inspire you to care for yourself

4 ways that pruning a plant can inspire you to care for yourself

Trimming back apple trees and berry bushes can inspire us to tend to ourselves—even as we’re caring for others. Pruning takes a plant back to its strongest, most vital parts, leaving the healthy tissue to flourish. These four plant pruning guidelines are visible reminders of how to nurture ourselves every day …

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you can do this for the people of ukraine

you can do this for the people of ukraine

It doesn’t take a war for us to feel helpless. Even caregivers on the front lines of a global pandemic can feel like they’re not making a difference in an overwhelming situation. But I believe that taking a moment to say a few words to yourself in times like these can remind us to move through the world with compassion, ultimately shifting how we relate to one another … as friends and neighbors, and strangers a world away. Here’s how …

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take time for teeny tiny meditation

take time for teeny tiny meditation

If your main focus is caring for others, finding the time or motivation to spend even a few minutes on taking care of yourself can be daunting. The inner sanctuary community just finished reading BJ Fogg’s Tiny Habits: The Small Changes that Change Everything for our March bookclub… and now we’re tiny-habiting All The Selfcare Things. I started with my daily meditation practice …

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selfcare meets you where you're at (plus a tool I'm loving for this)

selfcare meets you where you're at (plus a tool I'm loving for this)

For a lot of people—especially those who spend their time caring for others—focusing on themselves ends up at the bottom of a loooooong priority list. Our schedules are overfull, we don’t have the equipment we think we’ll need, and it all just seems like too much work because we’re exhausted. But there is a way for caregivers to sneak in some selfcare each week …

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2022: the year of "retreat"

2022: the year of "retreat"

There are many ways to mindfully mark the start of a new 12-month cycle. If you’re caring for others it can often feel like much of your life is out of your control, but choosing a tool to help you focus your selfcare thoughts and actions can prevent you from squandering your precious “me”-time, and help you stay attuned to what’s truly most important to you …

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6 tips (plus a bonus) for the unexpected caregiver

6 tips (plus a bonus) for the unexpected caregiver

Whether we tend to other people as part of our careers or not, if we have any sort of relationships at all (human or otherwise), we’ll all find ourselves in the role of caregiver at some point in our lives. And while every caregiving situation is unique, I was reminded of a few commonalities within the first few days of my husband’s recovery from his recent surgery during this National Family Caregivers Month …

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this is what happened when i stood in one place for 21 days

this is what happened when i stood in one place for 21 days

It’s a rare event to spot a caregiver standing still for any length of time. There are appointments to drive to, errands to run, meals to prep, calls to make, kids to look after, etc. But if you can manage to find just a few minutes to be still during your day, you just might discover an entire world around—and within—you.

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christmas in ... october? how to stay present when the rest of the world is charging ahead

christmas in ... october? how to stay present when the rest of the world is charging ahead

One of the most important things a busy caregiver can do for all-around wellness is to be in the current moment. Doing that helps you stay safe and grounded in your body, focused mentally and in-tune emotionally. But how do we do that when our local retail outlets started displaying Halloween costumes when temps were still in the 90s?

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3 tips for getting out of your own way

3 tips for getting out of your own way

Have you ever found yourself wallowing so deeply in disappointment, frustration or even anger about a situation you have no control over as you spend your days caring for others, that you catch yourself missing out on the good things right in front of you? Here are 3 ways to change that.

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